Falling in love is the most beautiful feeling ever. Those butterflies in the stomach, the blushing every time he whispers something sweet, the excitement of dressing up for dates, the first time he holds your hand can transport you to a different world altogether. But falling in love can also be the single most heart breaking feeling if it ends, leaving you feeling shattered and heartbroken. Love can be complicated, mysterious and elusive.
Hundreds of girls hide their tears in their pillows every right, pining for the magical thing called love. Those sleepless nights are spent overthinking, blaming themselves over their broken hearts. It is not the most difficult thing to fall in love but holding on to that and making it work out can be incredibly hard. Attraction is easy but turning it into a relationship can be the most difficult thing. If the connection is not that strong, the initial attraction ebbs of real quick and then the entire relationship starts going downhill rapidly. Building a relationship requires a lot of hard work and some tact. Bob Grant in his book, The Woman that Men Want, promises to empower every woman with the secret of finding love. We grabbed a copy of the book and here is all that you need to know.
About the author-Who is Bob Grant?
The author, Bob Grant, nicknamed ‘The Relationship Doctor’ is a successful relationship coach who has helped innumerable women work on their issues with their relationships. He has coached tons of women who had a difficult time finding love. He also helped countless women with failing relationships or relationships that had come to a standstill and most of his clients have shown brilliant improvement in their love lives. His speciality is his goal oriented plan on how to make a relationship work out. He has personally helped many women break free from the patterns of behaviour that have made it difficult for them to find love or hold on to a relationship. He is a staunch believer that every woman has the capability of finding love and he is committed to making that happen.
The Women Men adore…and Never Want to Leave- the book that promises you love
Bob Grant guarantees that his book, The Woman that Men adore…and Never Want to Leave, will help every woman find love. The biggest problem women face is their inability to understand men. Men and women think, behave and react differently. Hence women fail to understand what makes a man want to stay with her forever. The author says that every woman has the magic in her to sweep a man off his feet but most women don’t even know how powerful they actually are. He tells women what are the things which make a man want to commit and subtly influence your man to take the next step. It also tells you about the things you should not do in a relation which can make a man distant and even repel him. Often women do certain things without even realising that is it alienating the guy and reducing the chances of the relationship blooming. If you are inadvertently doing this, Grant tells you how to win his love back.
Will it work for me?
The author says that the book is written with every woman in mind. He deals with the unique little problems with much expertise. Whether you are a single woman looking for love or whether you are committed or married to your man and your relation has lost the spark, this book is equally helpful in kindling a romance like never before. If you are someone who can’t seem to get a relationship working past those first few days of attraction or if you find it difficult to get a guy to date, this book is what you need to conquer your challenges. Even if you are in a long term committed relationship but somehow he isn’t committing for marriage, you will find help in this book. With the tips this book gives, you will learn how to get him to take the plunge.
Helps you decode men: Men and women are different creatures and this book aims to bridge the gap by helping women decode men. Women often stumble when it comes to understanding what a man’s words or actions actually mean and spend hours trying to figure. It gives you an insight into how a man’s mind so you can work on his issues better.
Works from real life experience: The author has worked with countless real women, successfully helping them with their love lives and has collated his experience into this book which makes it more authentic and trustworthy than most of the self-help books out there.
Tells you explicitly the dos and don’ts: Relationships can be very tricky and each sex has a set of complex rules that the other doesn’t understand. This book simplifies these rules into simple dos and don’ts to help you understand men better.
Covers a wide range of issues you can face: The book, being extensive, covers a huge set of unique challenges that a relationship can face. Therefore it gives you a better chance of finding a solution for your particular issue. Although this makes it a big huge to read, you can always highlight only those parts which are important in your case.
Universal appeal: Whether you are someone looking for love or a committed woman who is facing problems in her relationship, this book caters to you, irrespective of your situation. As it is not specific to only a certain group of women, it has a very helpful universal appeal.
Spelling and grammar: The use of a little spell check would have worked wonders for this book. Spelling and grammar can be a big issue when it comes to this book. To be honest, the typographical errors sometimes make it quite difficult to read as well. You have to work a bit on ignoring these errors and not getting distracted. Otherwise the language is pretty clear and easy to understand, even if your English isn’t that great.
Lacks proper structuring: There is a slight issue with structure in this book as often you will find the sections slightly haphazard and not organised well enough. But that should not be an issue as you only need to focus on the parts that are applicable in your case.
Print: We have found the small size of the prints a little unappealing. It can cause your eyes to strain, especially if you are someone who has high power. So, our recommendation is that you read this book only when there is ample light, better if it is daylight.
The book says that every woman, by herself, is incredibly powerful and has the capacity to make a man fall madly in love with her. It teaches women how to harvest that power and channel it in the right direction for a happy love life. It gives women an insight into the way a man thinks and behaves, thereby giving her a chance to woo a man successfully. Overall, this book gives some solid relationship advice, mostly based on real life experience, which makes it a good buy.